Dulhan Ki Talash Aur Insaani Soch

Dulhan Ki Talash Aur Insaani Soch

Pelhe log jab dulhan ki talash me nikalte the tou salika mand, wafa Shi'aar aur nek chalan aur khidmat guzar ladkiyo ko dhunda jata tha lekin ab ladkiyo ko dhundne ke paimane bilkul badal gaye hai. sabse pehle daulat phir khubsurti ko hi shadi ke rishto ka paimana bana liya gaya hai. isiliye talimyaafta aur hunarmand ladkiya achche rishto ki talash me apni umr guzar rahi hai. jho apne hunar aur kirdar se kisi bhi ghar ki raunak aur izzat ko do-baala kar sakti hai. jin garib maan baap ke paas beti ko wida karne ke lliye maal-daulat nahi hai woh akhir jaaye tou kaha jaye?? shadi ki jin takribaat me saadgi aur kifayat shi'aari ka muzaahira kiya jata hai usme nusrate ilaahi aur barkat ka nuzul hota hai. jho kaam mahaz dikhawe aur naam wa numud, beja rasmo ke liye kiye jate hai usme kharabi paida hone ke imkamat zyada hote hai.

Dikhawe aur naam wa numud aur maal dualat aur paise wali ki talaash ki soch ki wajah se ladkiyo ke maan baap ki bhi soch badalti ja rahi hai, sochte hai ki jab tak hum apni ladkiyo ko fashion parast aur khub surati se lais nahi rakhe tab tak koi rishta nazdeek nahi aata. aur is tarah mu'aashra bhi westurn aur gair islami tehzib apnata jata hai.

Niak aurat ko Tarji

Bukhari wa Muslim wa Abu Dawood wa Nisai wa Ibne Majah, Abu Huraira رضي الله عنه se rawi, RASOOLALLAH صلى الله تعالى عليه واله وسلم ne famraya:: Aurat se Nikah Char-4 Bato se (ki Wajah) se kiya jata hai
1. Maal
2. Hasab
3. Jamal  ( Khubsurti )
4. Deen.

Aur tum Deen wali ko tarji do. (yaani Naik aurat ka intekhab karo)

[ Sahih Bukhari, Kitab ul Nikah, Baab al Kafa’a fi al Deen, Page No. 429, Hadith No.  5090(0) ]

jho musalman mashaALLAH maal-daar hai, daulat wa shohrat rakhte hai aur unhe lagta hai ki hum apni zindagi ki besh tar zariyat ko puri kar chuke hai tou unhe chahiye ki ek group banaye ya khud akele hi kisi aise garib ki madad karde jinki betiyan nikah ke laik hai par unki rasm paiso ki tangi ki wajah se atki huwi hai.

Aur nikah kardo apno me unka jho benikah ho (67), aur apne laik bando aur kanizo ka; agar woh fakir ho, tou ALLAH unhe ghani kar dega apne fazal ke sabab (68); aur ALLAH wus’at wala, ilm wala hai

[ Sura e Noor-24, Ayaah 32 – Tarjama: Kanzool Imaan]